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WHO ARE WE
tm4m is a group for transmen who play with men (or want to...) and the men who play with us.
Our goal is to provide information, education and support to transmen who have sex with men (both other transguys and cisguys). To do this, we put on monthly educational workshops and discussion groups, publish informational materials and continuously work to foster acceptance and build community. Our monthly events are on the 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month from 7-9PM at Eros, The Center for Safe Sex (2051 Market Street, SF, CA MAP). tm4m is a collaborative effort co-sponsored by Eros, Trannywood Pictures and TRANS: THRIVE (a program of the Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center).
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WHY ARE WE DOING THIS WORK
tm4m grew out of community concern for a lack of resources for transmen who play with men. Transmen are not always accepted in gay male spaces and as gay, bisexual or queer men, we don’t always fit in to trans spaces. The result is that some transmen feel isolated or disconnected. It has also been difficult for us to get accurate and tailored information about sexual health and HIV risk. tm4m addresses these gaps by working to build community and create resources for information sharing and education.
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Download our Resources
Click here to download the Top 5 Reason to Fuck a Transguy!
Click here to download the Primer on Trans/Non-trans Guys!
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HOW YOU CAN GET INVOLVED
We put on monthly events for transguys who play with guys (and the guys who play with us) on the 2nd and 4th Thursday from 7-9PM each month from at Eros, The Center for Safe Sex (2051 Market Street, SF, CA MAP). They are open to all unless otherwise specified. Our events alternate between structured workshops with speakers and activities more informal discussion and support group. We also do events and outreach, so keep an eye on our Facebook to see where to find tm4m around San Francisco next.
Our next events are:
tm4m is every 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month. The 2nd Thursday is always "talk dirty with tm4m" at 7pm followed by "Cruising Night at 7:30pm. The 4th Thursdays rotate between movie nights, discussion groups and workshops.
All events are held at Eros, The Center for Safe Sex, 2051 Market Street, SF, unless otherwise noted.
Original Plumbing Event:
January 12th
7pm, talk dirty with tm4m, Making Condoms Sexy: Bring your strap on for a demo and educational session on safer oral sex and condom use while sucking cock or getting sucked and during strap on play. Learn tips and tricks to keep your toys, and body, safe while keeping it sexy. All attendees get in free for Cruising Night at 7:30pm, Cruising Night: Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by the Tuesday before the event to tm4msf@gmail.com, otherwise its normal club fees ($22 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more).
January 13th
10pm, Original Plumbing Party, Join tm4m as we dance the night away with Original Plumbing at their release party for OP Issue #8, "Family Matters." We'll also have a table with information on all the latest tm4m events. Upstairs at the Elbo Room, 21+, $6. More info at originalplumbing.com
January 26th
7pm, Movie Night: Join us for a screening of the documentary "Private Dicks: Men Exposed," a 1999 HBO documentary about folks and their cocks, mostly cisguys, but includes both a transwoman and transman. Even better most of them are naked. Come out and enjoy the film with us in the lounge at Eros with good guys and snacks
February 2nd
6pm, Speed Dating, for all transmasculine and male identified folks: Are you looking to meet to meet some nice guys for dates or hookups? Looking for a social space to hang out with other transguys and guys who like them? Join us for speed dating event hosted by Fairy Butch (Karlyn Lotney) at the API Wellness Center, 730 Polk Street (between Eddy and Ellis), 4th Floor, SF.
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VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES
We are always looking for support. Please contact Niko at tm4msf@gmail.com if interested in volunteering. Please put “Volunteer” in the subject line. We’ll contact you the next a volunteer opportunity comes up with tm4m
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CONTACT US
Suggestions? Send us your ideas and let us know what events you’d like to see us outreach at. Contact us by email at tm4msf@gmail.com to let your voice be heard.
Don’t forget to connect with us on:
Our Sponsors
TRANS:THRIVE
www.transthrive.org
Eros
www.erossf.com
Trannywood Pictures
www.trannywoodpictures.com
Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center
www.apiwellness.org
tm4m is co-sponsored by TRANS:THRIVE (a program of Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center), Eros & Trannywood Pictures
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